I have become a convert to hypnobirthing. When I was pregnant with
my first son I was rather sceptical of natural birth, I was keen for any pain
relief possible and any mention of a pain free orgasmic birth made me cringe.
After a less than spectacular first birth experience which resulted in an
intervention cascade and a painful traumatic 21 hrs (you can read about it here)
I was willing to check out my options. Turns out that pain medication and a
safe healthy birth aren’t always compatible. So when a friend of mine started to talk about
hypnobirthing I was ready to listen, and what she was saying made sense. She
had used hypnobirthing for her first labour and was so convinced that she
decided to become a hypnobirthing tutor, I feel super lucky that she did
otherwise there is no way my second birth would have been anywhere as peaceful
and as easy as it was.
When you go into labour stressed out,
tense or fearful then your body does not function as it should. Based on our
current societal conditioning we are programmed to
think labour is painful and usually needs medical assistance. What happens
when we hit the fear response is that the body goes into fight, flight or freeze mode
taking blood and oxygen away from non essential organs such as your uterus and
diverting it to essential organs such as the heart and lungs. This causes the
muscles in the uterus to fatigue and not work as well as they normally would.
We also release adrenaline - which blocks endorphins and tenses all of our
muscles making it harder for the involuntary muscles responsible for labour to
do their job. A fearful labour takes place in
sympathetic system, this is 'the emergency room' of our body and is
basically your flight or fight or freeze response. When we are in this mode we
release adrenaline and block oxytocin which in turn makes labour slower and
more painful. Hypnobirthing uses the body's natural hormonal processes to both enhance labour and remove pain, flooding the body with endorphins is the trick to a pain free labour. To do this we must activate the parasympathetic nervous system.
After my first birth experience
anything that would give me the skills to birth more effectively sounded great.
Talking to my husband we realized this would be a really effective way of being proactive about birth and address our fears effectively. We
signed up.
The basics of hypnobirthing are broken into three main approaches
- Learning to achieve and maintain deep levels
of relaxation through self-hypnosis & breathing techniques
- Positive
repositioning of birth in our subconscious through various techniques such
as visualisation, affirmations, fear release and self-hypnosis.
- Education about normal, healthy pregnancy,
labour & birth, and practical physical approaches to birthing effectively.
These techniques together become a
powerful birthing companion, they enable you to birth well as well as giving
your birth partner really practical ways of assisting
Hypnobirthing is actually just a fancy
name for what women have been able to do for centuries, at its simplest level
it is essentially just deep relaxation free from fear. Many women ‘hypnobirth’
naturally as part of their labour coping mechanism. Hypnobirthing as a formal
technique was developed by Marie Mongan as a response to what she saw as a
social and medical undermining of women’s ability to safely birth without
intervention. Many people think that hypnosis is the premise of stage shows and
kooky 1970’s psychiatrists, I have to admit when I first heard the term, people
quacking like a duck on stage passed through my mind. I couldn’t shake the
Derren Brown associations. However hypnosis is simply a very powerful way of
talking to your subconscious which is already used by high performance
athletes, powerful business professionals and performers. We actually engage in
self ‘hypnosis’ on a daily basis with our self talk, how often have you heard
that using positive self talk will get positive results? Hypnobirthing is no
different. We didn’t walk into a room of
swinging pendants or spiraling circles. We simply learned how to access deep
relaxation and self hypnosis on our own!
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Surge breathing during early labour.
A dark space helps promote melatonin which in turn helps to promote oxytocin |
So what is hypnobirthing?
Aim: to give mum
and birth partner tools and techniques to approach birth positively &
confidently; birth is calmer, safer, easier
and more comfortable.
Philosophy: Birth is a
natural, normal, healthy life event, and for a healthy mum, baby and pregnancy,
it does not need to be over medicalised. Interventions are not necessary during
a normal healthy pregnancy and birth, women’s bodies are not destined to
malfunction, birthing with the body is achievable for up to 95% of all mothers.
This is about families at an
incredibly special time having the best possible birth for them!
Goal: Gentle
safe birth for mum & baby: Both mum and baby are healthy and happy. One is
not at the expense of the other. Trust in birth!
Calm + relaxed = parasympathetic system = endorphins = effective,
manageable contractions
Obstructions
to a relaxed calm and safe birth: Anxiety, fear and tension
Fear, anxiety and tension
triggers the sympathetic nervous system response which is FIGHT/FLIGHT/FREEZE
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Adrenalin no endorphins
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Tension in birthing muscles
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Less blood/oxygen to birthing muscles, the uterus is not a defence
organ
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Contractions less effective and more painful
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Mind sends message to body that it’s not safe to birth
Fear + tension = sympathetic nervous system = longer more painful
birth+ higher chance of intervention
Hypnobirthing classes are
designed to give us the tools to keep mum and baby calm throughout labour and
birth
They teach:
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How to achieve and maintain very deep levels of relaxation
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Breathing techniques
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Self- hypnosis, positive imagery, visualisations, affirmations,
fear release to change negative beliefs/ideas (often held subconsciously)
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Anchors: touch, smell, words to deepen relaxation
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Light touch massage, acupressure
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Education: physiology, nutrition, exercise, DVDs
A huge thanks to Carolyn for providing these hypnobirthing notes.
The whole focus of the classes was about
giving us the skills to birth well, they gave me the skills to relax deeply
enough and my husband the skills to actively assist in a meaningful and
practical way. The classes themselves were really calming, they were my serene
spot in the week. Since I stopped doing yoga re-learning to relax was difficult
for me and the classes offered some effective tools to do this. We spent a lot of the time doing deep
relaxation and visualization exercises as well as learning about the physiology
of labour. I couldn’t help compare these classes to what I learned in my
antenatal class and there were
significant differences. Traditional antenatal classes often tell you
that being relaxed makes for a better labour but there is very little info on
how this is actually done. Most antenatal classes seem to prepare you for the medical model
of birth. Whereas hypnobirthing explains how your body works in labour and how
to optimise that. A relaxed body enables
dilation to progress more smoothly and which exercises will allow this to
happen.
We were
given a CD with relaxation tracks of hypnotic music and Marie Mongan (the
creator of hypnobirthing) talking you through the relaxation process as well as
birthing affirmations. For hypnobirthing to work effectively you really need to
engage in the process, much of the work done is about re-writing your
expectation of birth. Cultural stereotypes like women screaming in hospitals in lithotomy with useless
looking husbands being cursed at while authoritative surgeons did all the hard
work are prolific. They sit deep within our psyche and build the expectation
that birth is painful, traumatic and most of all – beyond us. This is simply
not the case. There are a small percentage of women who are unable to have safe
births without intervention. But for the majority of us, when we are given the
correct information, tools and support, birth can be powerful, calm and
effective. I knew that to have a birth like that I really needed to believe in
my body 100% and as such threw myself into relaxation exercises completely.
Every night I listened to my rainbow relaxation, at work when I was typing
emails I had my birthing affirmations playing on loop. During the evenings my
husband and I practiced light touch massage, acupressure, setting hypnotic
anchors and deep relaxation. We did visualization exercises together and while
he watched movies I listened to my tapes. Because my first birth had been so
traumatising I had a lot of work to do to undo my subconscious fears. Our
hypnobirthing tutor was amazing at leading us through exercises that helped us
break down those expectations. I started to trust my body and was looking
forwards to labour, which was completely unexpected. I literally felt like a
veil had been lifted.
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| Relaxing in the shower an hour before birth |
As our guess date drew nearer I felt more
connected with our baby and the impending birth, I felt so much more prepared
than I had for my first birth. My husband was a changed person, he had been
anxious about birth and had even asked to not be there. After classes ended he
was confident and so calm. When we first started classes we were settled on a
hospital birth, without question, but as classes progressed and as we realized
we were entirely capable of birthing this baby, we realised a home birth was what
we wanted. I didn’t want to be offered drugs, given multiple vaginal exams or
hooked up to sensors. I wanted the freedom to birth without an arbitrary timeline and without being bossed into interventions that were not necessary. I
didn’t want to relive that feeling of helplessness and fear. So we made the decision to switch to a
homebirth and it was the best decision we made. How did it go?
You’ll have to check out my birth story which I’ll be posting up soon.
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Our first feed out of the water.
With special thanks to Jorinde for these beautiful photos |
